Having now lived in Zambia for over a year and a half, I notice that I have picked up some of the cultural habits and expressions. In fact, I sometimes notice myself slipping into a Zambian accent when speaking English! Although I teach in English, it’s sometimes easier to use broken English to communicate with children at school here or with Zambians who don’t speak much English.
I like the way that Zambian people say "Sorry, sorry!" if they see someone hurt themselves. They don’t do this to admit responsibility for doing something wrong, but rather to say they are sorry on behalf of that person. When I first moved here I used to automatically tell the children at school not to worry because whatever happened wasn't their fault, but now I find myself automatically saying “sorry, sorry” instead.
|With some of the pupils from Kapumpe|
I have also learned to talk about where I stay rather than where I live. We have taught the children at school to ask and answer the question, "Where do you live?", but in general conversation here, people recognise “Where do you stay?” much more easily. Similarly, I used to find it irritating that the children at school would say their head was “paining” rather than saying their head hurt or they had a headache. Last year I tried to teach them to change how they described having a headache but I think it’s a habit that’s hard to break. As they say, “If you can’t beat them, join them”… so I have embraced the “paining”.
“Beating” is another word that is both overused and used incorrectly here, according to our British understanding. If a child gets punched, kicked or even just tapped on the arm, they will say that they have been beaten. As some of the children at school do get beaten at home, we want to make sure they understand the difference between this and something more insignificant.
|Children at playtime|
Aside from the language, there are a number of other local customs that I have adopted. My sister Rachel will probably disown me for admitting this, but I have embraced the not-so-stylish Zambian trend of wearing socks with flip flops. I wouldn’t consider doing this back at home but it turns out to be quite practical when it's warm in the day and colder at night. I should just add that I would only ever wear socks and flip flops like slippers, when inside during the evenings in the cold season. I still ban my Dad from wearing socks and sandals at home!
|Sporting the Zambian socks and sandals look|
All Zambian women seem to own several chitenge, which are pieces of bright coloured fabric that have many different uses. Ladies use them to protect their clothes whilst working, to cover their legs/knees when walking around in rural areas, to sit on the ground outside, to carry a baby on their back, as a towel...I even found it could be a makeshift shower curtain! They are very handy to have and I am building up a nice collection.
|Chitenge shower curtain|
Seemingly every Zambian eats nshima (maize), which is the staple food here. Initially I wasn’t too sure about the idea of eating it with my hands rather than using cutlery, but it turns out that nshima tastes a lot better when you roll it in your hand. It has been explained to me that it is deemed inappropriate to do this with both hands, and that it should be done only with the right because the left hand is used for going to the toilet!
There are some traditional customs that I haven't embraced yet. I haven't worn a wig or a weave in my hair, which is something that most Zambian ladies do. I haven’t tried eating chicken feet and I haven’t mastered the ability to carry things on my head. I think it might take me quite some time to be able to carry a 25kg bag of food on my head like the very skilled local ladies do here.
|Local woman showing off her skills|